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Thursday, December 13, 2007

Rue’s Kitchen Table

I know, this is long-overdue...

I would like to invite you all to Rue's Kitchen Table.

RKT is a brand spankin' new Yahoo Group I just threw together for friends, family, and readers of Rue's Kitchen & Abraca-Pocus!, as well as my friends and family from The Stregoneria Italiana Project!

Stregoneria Italiana Project Forum

Please do not adjust your sets....

The site is indeed down due to server problems. Solitario, the owner/administrator is doing everything he can to get it back up and running. In the meantime, why not hang around here? cheese

Maybe I can throw together a little space for us in the meantime.

Abbracci,

Rue

Wednesday, December 05, 2007

Seven Layer Magic Bars

My favourite of all my late father's many, many, girlfriends, a lady I think of as my step-mom since I've known, loved, and kept in touch with her for 32 years now, use to make these for me every Christmas when I was little. I make them for my family now. ~R

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1/2 cup butter or margarine
1 1/2 cups graham cracker crumbs
1 14-oz. can sweetened condensed milk
1 cup butterscotch flavored chips
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
1 1/3 cups flaked coconut
1 cup chopped pecans

Preheat oven to 350°, (325° for glass dish). Line a 13x9-inch baking pan with a sheet of foil, making sure to cover the sites well. Place the butter in the baking pan and melt it in the oven. Sprinkle crumbs over butter; pour condensed milk evenly on top of crumbs. Top with remaining ingredients in order listed; press down firmly with fork. Bake 25 minutes or until lightly browned. Cool. Chill if desired. Cut into bars. Store covered at room temperature.

Nadia G.’s Geek Grillade



...and part two.



Monday, December 03, 2007

The unwritten rules of being Italian

By Luna (aka Terri Giosia)

He looked out the door slowly, looking from right to left when the coast was clear he moved quickly to car and drove onto the highway. He had no clue whether she had another drink, did she leave soon after of did she stay and indulge in the Jacuzzi and revel in the smell and moment they had shared.

Carlo wasn’t having an affair on his wife, but on his soon to be wife Angelina.

He wondered what Angelina would be like. His beautiful olive skinned Sicilian with long black hair and cleavage he was dying to put his face into.

Never did he wonder if she’d be afraid, or nervous, he just knew he was marrying a virgin and she’d be a wonderful wife as she was taught well by her mom and other female influences.

They met at 18, fell in lust never really knowing if they shared similar interests but rather they had similar upbringings and shared views on what men and women did in the marriage.

Men went to the bar to drink espressos, perhaps to engage in a game of cards and talk with other men. Women were “forbidden” to enter literally, no woman ever went into these types of bars. This was one of the many unwritten rules between Italians.

Another was “never ask”, so while women stayed home and cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids, and washed lipstick off their men’s collars, a woman never asked what time they’d be home, where did they go, who they saw or God forbid a simple “honey can you bring home a litre of milk”. In Italian households a man does not go into the grocery store, the woman does the groceries every Thursday.

The same night they have pasta. Pasta’s eaten 3 times a week, Tuesdays, Thursdays and Sunday at noon. The other nights were a variety of veal dishes, maybe a roast and Friday’s if one really held onto tradition it was fish.

Another rule, probably one of the biggest ones, is that a woman should be a virgin before getting married. Not to be pure is the biggest of sins in both Catholic and Italian households. She can be mean, conniving, manipulative, a bitch to others, but all that would be overlooked because she is a virgin.

Some traditions had the bride and groom the day after their 1st night together actually display the sheets, and hopefully there was a blood stain, as they truly believed that all virgins bled.

Stay tuned for part II

Sunday, December 02, 2007

You say zweiback, I say biscotti

... let's dunk the whole thing in coffee! I'm Italian and my husband is German -food is central in our household. My father's family hails from central-southern Italy. My mother's family hails from Trieste and what used to be part of Italy, a peninsula now belonging to Croatia. You can imagine the wealth of tradition and recipes! I found a great piece on the internet about biscotti and wanted to share it with you this holiest of all times of year: cookie baking season! ~R

Biscotti & mandlebrot

Biscotti date to Ancient times. The term literally means "twice baked." These hard biscuits fueled armies and fed travelers. Flavor variations and culinary techniques evolved according to time and place. German zweiback, Jewish mandelbrot, British ship's biscuit, and American hardtack are similar in purpose and method. About biscuits.

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

the time is approaching

for Christmas baking. I know some of you have already begun. I always plan early/on time and I usually run out of time or just manage to bake one variety. If I can only bake one variety this year it will have to be Cuccidati.

Here's a little something to sweeten your day while I go back to bed in preparation for tonight's night shift.

cookie p@rn for you

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

my library

I get lots of mail asking me about what books are in my library and what kinds of books I read when I want to read about magic, etc. Some books that are near and dear to my heart are by Titania Hardie. Titania's writing appeals to 'witches' of all denominations because Titania learned her craft from her nonna.

Monday, November 26, 2007

Leather Tuscadero

is 57 years old? big surprise Suzi Quatro is an inspiration. Women should not fear growing old, we should embrace it. I think the secret is rock 'n' roll. wink

Rock on, paesan'!

The Women in black.

The Women in black.
By Luna, (aka Terri Giosia)

It’s a beautiful sunny Sunday morning and I’m driving to a friends for brunch and on my way to her home I drive by 2 churches where many Italian women go and I chuckle at the scene as I’m waiting for the light to change.

The women are gathered in a cluster and from afar all you can really see are various shades of grey in their hair and black clothing, heads going from right to left, some pointing, but all of them listening attentively to the one who’s speaking.

It’s a typical scene one sees right outside a church. Women cackling, in a circle and if anyone outside the realm of being Italian would see this, it looks like a coven of old witches from Macbeth.

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  • Being from an Italian dad and a french Canadian mother, I've seen alot at weddings. I'll agree I've seen some degrading things. I remember at my cousins wedding (french side), the men danced with the bride and pinned money to her dress but also the women danced with the groom and pinned money to his tux. Luckily my dad didn't want that at my wedding.
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